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      <image:caption>Jane comes into my office and tells me she dated a lot before she met her husband. She thought FOR SURE he was different, but low and behold, she has the same issues with him! Jane wants to be in a relationship and maybe wants kids. She is just TIRED! A lot of her friends are getting married, and she wonders what is wrong with her. It’s not that hard to figure out. It’s not that something is wrong with you, we just all have patterns. And tend to date the same kind of guys. It’s called Repetition Compilation. You really can make a difference in your dating and relationships. I know you’re worried that you won’t have a healthy relationship. You can’t figure out what’s going on. But, if you change what YOU are doing, it WILL change your relationships. You will want to work with me if: If you are tired of arguing about the same old things. If you want to know exactly WHY these arguments are happening. If you’re having the same problems in your dating relationships. (It seems like you’re dating the same guy!) If you want to know What you need to do NOW to change things. If you want to know your NEXT steps for creating a healthy relationship! If you want to know how to have fun dating and it not be such a chore…</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I help people who struggle with any of their relationships stop the cycle of worrying, and crying, and pleading, and trying to fix it all by themselves.  So you can have peace and enjoy your life.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Recovery from Narcissistic Relationships Group - Who This Group is For</image:title>
      <image:caption>Women recovering from relationships with narcissists Individuals seeking peer support and guidance</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Weekly 50-minute virtual sessions hosted on Saturday from 10am-10:50am PST Facilitated discussions, tools and homework, and peer sharing Focus on emotional support, coping strategies, and How to take your power! I know it is probably gone.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>You are smart and work hard and have a good career and good friends.  You see your friends have a good relationship with their moms.  You feel sadness and longing because you don’t have it.  Your feel stuck with your relationship or dating. You have a pattern you want to break.  You feel pretty lonely in the world.  You may have been told you have abandonment issues.  Maybe people please a bit too much? Overdo for others? Are you ready?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Your heart really does hurt :( It is a scientific fact. The part you can count on is it Will heal. We’ll address the grief. You will learn what went wrong and what your pattern is. And How to show up differently in the next relationship. And how to get your self esteem back! Or get it for the first time:)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>You leaned a lot, Now you can build the life you want! Everyone knows what they want, they just have reasons why they can’t or shouldn’t.  I have worked with SO many women who look and FEEL stronger and joyful after working through all this. Everyone says they will never date again! And I laugh. Because you will…</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>What I really want to say is: Please do the premarital work! You want to set it up so you don’t need to get a divorce later! We talk about all the important things that need to be talked about. And how to resolve the issues you have now. I’ll help you get your marriage off to a good start so you can be at the wedding and relax cause you know you did the work and made a good choice. LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH.</image:caption>
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